| Name: | Heather |
| Email: | vixenwitch@primus.com.au |
| HomePage: | http://www.geocities.com/virgo132000/index.html?949043400440 |
| Where are you from: | victoria.. australia |
| Comments: | Your son would be proud of you.. I am!! and I havent even met you but your warmth shows through in your work:) |
| April 7, 2000 01:16:23 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Nancy |
| Email: | nancy105@webtv.net |
| HomePage: | http:// |
| Where are you from: | Wilson N.Y. |
| Comments: | Danita and Family~if love could tke away the pain..you would feel it no more...Butwithout the pain we would hae missed the love and joy of knowing Geoff and that would have been the saddess of all, I admire your strength,dedication and on going commitment of keeping Geoff alive in our hearts...God Bless and Love Aunt Nancy Your SIL |
| January 22, 2000 18:32:03 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Nancy |
| Email: | nancy105@webtv.net |
| HomePage: | http:// |
| Where are you from: | Wilson N.Y. |
| Comments: | Danita and Family~if love could tke away the pain..you would feel it no more...Butwithout the pain we would hae missed the love and joy of knowing Geoff and that would have been the saddess of all, I admire your strength,dedication and on going commitment of keeping Geoff alive in our hearts...God Bless and Love Aunt Nancy Your SIL |
| January 22, 2000 18:29:52 (GMT Time) |
Guestbook for inmemoryofgeoff.8m.com
| Name: | Inger Thordal |
| Email: | thordal@tv.dk |
| HomePage: | http://thordal.homepage.dk |
| Where are you from: |
Denmark |
| Comments: | Your site is beautifull. You have make a great work. |
| October 21, 99 10:26:32 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Margaret |
| Email: | matemple@erinet.com |
| HomePage: | http://www.geocities. com/Heartland/Valley/1246/ |
| Where are you from: |
Ohio |
| Comments: | Hi sweetie! Thanks for stopping by my site and signing my guestbook and leaving your url address. So, like me, you have lost your son. I'm sorry that anyone loses a child. Each time I hear of someone losing one, it brings back those feelings of loss and total desperation. I hope you are ok, that somehow you have found peace. I am thankful for the time I had with John, I think of him each day, but life does go on, and we must make the best of each day. It truly is a gift. God Bless You!!! |
| October 20, 99 23:13:55 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Kirsten Harfot |
| Email: | kirsten@harfot.dk |
| HomePage: | http://www.harfot.dk |
| Where are you from: |
Denmark |
| Comments: | Dear Danita. What a beautiful page in memory of Geoff. God bless you. Kindest Regards KIRSTEN |
| October 20, 99 22:54:47 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Marti |
| Email: | choctaw48@hotmail.com |
| HomePage: | http://geocities.com/EnchantedForest/Mountain/8229 |
| Where are you from: |
NorthEast Florida |
| Comments: | Thank u for visiting my sons memorial as well...I really feel noone can possibly understand except another mother what it is like to lose a child..doesnt matter the age of the child..God will take u and your family one day at a time...You are in my prayers... |
| October 19, 99 23:55:22 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Mira (Ricky's Angel Mom) |
| Email: | poison@cyberportal.net |
| HomePage: | http://www.topcities.com/Family/jassy |
| Where are you from: |
NH |
| Comments: | What a beautiful tribute to your son! You and your family are in my prayers. |
| October 19, 99 02:25:25 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Pat Confere |
| Email: | passy@newwav.net |
| HomePage: | http:// |
| Where are you from: |
W.V. |
| Comments: | I understand |
| October 16, 99 23:39:04 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Debbie |
| Email: | drix@wwdg.com |
| HomePage: | http://come.to/jimmie.lafrance |
| Where are you from: |
Port Huron,Michigan |
| Comments: | As I looked through Geoff's Memorial, I saw LOVE. It is beautiful and he was a handsom son. Thank you for signing Jimmie's book too. Nothing will ever compare to this pain. ((HUGS)) |
| October 15, 99 04:26:15 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Helen |
| Email: | |
| HomePage: | http://www.geocities.com/heartland/3799 |
| Where are you from: |
Montana |
| Comments: | Hun thank you for visting my tinas page and hun you have done a wonderful job on your site your son would be proud ((((((HUGS)))))) Helen |
| October 14, 99 23:41:34 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Heather Caudill |
| Email: | PHT1997@aol.com |
| HomePage: | http:// |
| Where are you from: |
Charlotte, NC |
| Comments: | Im new to the road2healing group and I wanted you to know that I recognize your loss and I celebrate your sons life. |
| October 14, 99 12:07:49 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Helen M. Fisher |
| Email: | HFisher41@aol.com |
| HomePage: | http://members.aol.com/HMFisher/hmf.html |
| Where are you from: |
Pacific Northwest, USA |
| Comments: | What a beautiful site you have made in Geoff's memory. My heart goes out to you and your beautiful family on your loss. Peace and love, Helen. |
| October 14, 99 03:47:01 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Monika Hedglin |
| Email: | lunamom@murlin.com |
| HomePage: | http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Estates/4684 |
| Where are you from: |
Sedalia, mo |
| Comments: | HAPPY BIRTHDAY GEOFF to Geoff parents i offer you my heartfelt sympathy and know in your hearts that Geoff is now free his memory will live forever in your hearts and his soul will live forever in heaven wth Our Savior. God Bless you all love Monika |
| October 13, 99 17:07:42 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Mariann |
| Email: | rmkruktn@chibardun.net |
| HomePage: | http://www.win.bright.net/~rmkruktn/Wally.htm |
| Where are you from: |
Wisconsin |
| Comments: | Danita: You have created a beautiful memorial site for Geoff. I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers today. |
| October 12, 99 16:25:32 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Carla & Glenn Cutting |
| Email: | ccutting@kpbsd.k12.ak.us |
| HomePage: | http:// |
| Where are you from: |
Soldotna, Alaska |
| Comments: | Happy Birthday Geoff We miss you. Aunt Carla, Uncle Glenn, Tara, Carie, Jason and Sean |
| October 12, 99 15:48:28 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Catherine Whitehorse |
| Email: | whitehorse@crowvisions.com |
| HomePage: | http://www.crowvisions.com |
| Where are you from: |
Washington State |
| Comments: | Danita: First let me Thank You for the kind words you gave for my webpage. I would like to say how sorry I am to learn of your loss, I lost my Mother March 6 1999 and it is such a terribly hard thing to deal with! I am sorry for your loss and wish you all the sympathy and blessings I have to give! Aho, Whitehorse |
| October 12, 99 03:25:49 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Andrea |
| Email: | andie_79@hotmail.com |
| HomePage: | http:// |
| Where are you from: |
New Mexico(for now) |
| Comments: | I can only imagine that tomorrow will be an especially hard day for you, and if you want to talk I'm here. Just know that I'm thinking of all of you on this first birthday without geoff and every day you are in my thoughts and prayers. |
| October 11, 99 23:42:59 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Lady Yankee |
| Email: | choochoo34_98@yahoo.com |
| HomePage: | http://members.xoom.com/jane928/index.html |
| Where are you from: |
Maryland |
| Comments: | Howdy! Great Site!!!!! I would like to invite you to visit my new site. A place where friends from all over the world can share and grow.(Just click on the banner) We would love to have you join us, |
| October 11, 99 01:30:36 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | maria |
| Email: | maria.hens@pandora.be |
| HomePage: | http://www.fortunecity.com/greenfield/beluga/468/index.htm |
| Where are you from: |
belgium |
| Comments: | Greatings from belgium |
| October 9, 99 22:21:15 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Jayme Leigh Butts |
| Email: | goaliegirl11@hotmail.com |
| HomePage: | http:// |
| Where are you from: |
holloman afb , nm |
| Comments: | aunt danita, This page is awesome. I'm sorry for your loss and sorry it took me so long to see it. I wish that maybe i could have gotten to know geoff a litte better these past few years. we are always here if you need us. we love all you guys. keep in touch. |
| October 8, 99 02:20:52 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Rosemarie |
| Email: | jarok@swbell.net |
| HomePage: | http://www.geocities.com/Wellesley/Atrium/4558 |
| Where are you from: |
Houston,TX |
| Comments: | I just read you comments on my Andy's(Kellar)guestbook and visited your Geoff's site. It is beautiful. I can't imagine the heartache of a child taking his own life, even though any form of death of your child is devastating. I know you are so proud that another son could put the time and love into making this website. We all become one in our grief, no matter the cause. Even tho I am glad that Andy's death was instant, I have regretted not being able to donate his organs. That is such a wonderf |
| October 7, 99 13:54:03 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Nicole |
| Email: | kane1@indy.net |
| HomePage: | http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/shores/7790 |
| Where are you from: |
indiana |
| Comments: | I am so sorry for the loss of your son God bless you and your family |
| October 6, 99 06:41:59 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Jane |
| Email: | 1cuteangel@pdq.net |
| HomePage: | http:// |
| Where are you from: |
Houston. tex |
| Comments: | Dear Danita. I am so sorry for your lost of your sweet son. (( Geoff )) He is such a handsome man. My prays go out to you and his family. God Bless. Jane |
| October 6, 99 05:45:50 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Love~Petals |
| Email: | mshields@mediaone.net |
| HomePage: | http://angelfire.com/de/lovepetals |
| Where are you from: |
Fl |
| Comments: | |
| October 6, 99 02:57:57 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Peggy McComb |
| Email: | pmccomb@netscape.net |
| HomePage: | http://www.geocities.com/Petsburgh/Haven/1946/ |
| Where are you from: |
Jackson Michigan |
| Comments: | I am so sorry for your loss. I found your site off of my sister's site. Both my brother and sister have lost their sons to suicide. I appreciate mine so very much more. I have started my site but haven't alot of time to work on it. I pray that you find peace and God Bless. Peggy |
| October 5, 99 19:43:41 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Ann |
| Email: | jsherman@brevard.net |
| HomePage: | http://www.pcisys.net/~bmurrish/memorial.html |
| Where are you from: |
Cocoa FL |
| Comments: | Dear Danita, Thank you for sharing Geoff with me. He is such a handsome young man and I'm so sorry we have to travel this path together. Thank you for signing Larry's memorial page also. Sincerely, Ann |
| October 5, 99 12:48:27 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Debbie |
| Email: | MsBBSITTER@aol.com |
| HomePage: | http://members.aol.com/MsBBSITTER/Josh.html |
| Where are you from: |
TN |
| Comments: | I just visited your site and wanted to tell you I am very sorry about Geoff. I know this pain all to well. I too lost my oldest child and son Josh to suicide on Nov. 6, 1996. He was 15 at the time. It is very difficult on the survivors. My surviving children were 6 & 8 at the time. My thoughts are with you.... |
| October 5, 99 12:39:50 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Kimmy Smith |
| Email: | kimmysmith@kimmysmith.com |
| HomePage: | http://www.kimmysmith.com/ |
| Where are you from: |
Louisiana |
| Comments: | I am so sorry that anyone's title has to be "In Memory" which only shows how universal grief is. Thanks for visiting Megan's site. I am so sorry that you have had to experience this. |
| October 5, 99 11:55:49 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Candida Torre |
| Email: | nalani@earthlink.net |
| HomePage: | http:// |
| Where are you from: |
Calif |
| Comments: | I really like your page. Thank you for your words, they help so much. |
| October 5, 99 05:09:19 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Libbie |
| Email: | JPooh12 |
| HomePage: | http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Woods/6367/ |
| Where are you from: |
Louisiana |
| Comments: | I cried as I looked at all the photos of your precious Geoff. I know you treasure each photo that was ever taken of him. That's how I feel now that my son has gone to Heaven. May God grant you peace until you join Geoff for eternity. |
| October 4, 99 20:45:53 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Donna Leslie |
| Email: | edleslie@vianet.on.ca |
| HomePage: | http://www.freeyellow.com/members8/tiffany52 |
| Where are you from: |
Canada |
| Comments: | Your site on your son is soo beautiful Danita..thanks for signing Donnie's guest book..you have a beautiful son.to bad that is how we had to meet..keep in touch my friend...God be with you forever...Love Donna |
| October 3, 99 02:23:13 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Donna Fitts |
| Email: | fittsjd@odyssey.net |
| HomePage: | http://members.tripod.com/~dsf_13/index.html |
| Where are you from: |
Homer, NY |
| Comments: | So sorry for your loss of Geoff. I grew up in Barker, about 40 miles East of Buffalo, born in Lockport so I know your area pretty well. My Shari has been gone over eight years. I wish you peace as best you can find it. |
| October 1, 99 23:15:34 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Mary Catherine Jones |
| Email: | mcjones@msc.net |
| HomePage: | http://www.chucksinheaven.cjb.net/ |
| Where are you from: |
MO |
| Comments: | Danita dear, I was so very saddened to hear of the death of your beloved son, Geoff. My heart goes out to you and all of your dear family. Such a tragic way for such a young life to end. I have always ached so for families who were left behind as a result of a person making the decision to end their problems is such a permanent way. A permanent solution to a temporary problem, such a tragedy...You are all in my thoughts and more importantly in my daily prayers. May God hold you all gently |
| October 1, 99 18:56:39 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Bill Knauss |
| Email: | billknauss@compuserve.com |
| HomePage: | http://members.tripod.com/billykay |
| Where are you from: |
Mesa, AZ |
| Comments: | Thank you for visiting my Dalton's page. It is appreciated. What a wonderful tribute you have done for your precious Geoff. I cried as I looked through each page. Even though, we have lost a son also, we still can not know exactly how you feel, but please know that we know hurt and hurt for you. I really liked reading this on your site: Go ahead and mention my child The one that died, you know Don't worry about hurting me further The depth of my pain doesn't show. Don't worry about making |
| October 1, 99 18:44:37 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | bonnie |
| Email: | bowlerlady@webtv.net |
| HomePage: | http://community.webtv.net/bowlerlady/homepage |
| Where are you from: |
ohio |
| Comments: | You have a very beautful memorial. I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you. Thanks for visiting my girls. God Bless You |
| October 1, 99 18:23:27 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Michelle |
| Email: | Myoung2u@aol.com |
| HomePage: | http://hometown.aol.com/myoung2u/personal/index.htm |
| Where are you from: |
Oklahoma |
| Comments: | You have a beautiful site. Your son Geoff was a very handsome young man. I am so sorry for your loss. |
| October 1, 99 14:04:32 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Molly |
| Email: | |
| HomePage: | http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Estates/4590 |
| Where are you from: |
NC. |
| Comments: | Thank you so much for visiting my website and leaving a link to visit yours. I'm so sorry for your loss. God be with you and your family. Molly |
| September 30, 99 18:19:40 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Don Merrill |
| Email: | merrydon@mailcity.com |
| HomePage: | http://www.geocities.com/SouthBeach/Breakers/5719 |
| Where are you from: |
Port Orange Florida |
| Comments: | I love looking at all of the wonderful home pages and admire all of the work that goes into making them. If you get a chance please visit my home page and sign my guest book. |
| September 29, 99 15:56:32 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | kevsmomjan |
| Email: | jkh492@aol.com |
| HomePage: | http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Village/4555/PageOne.html |
| Where are you from: |
MO |
| Comments: | Thank you so much for sharing Geoff. I am so sorry for your pain. Please join us sometime in The Compassionate Friends Childloss Chat Room. We "need not walk alone"... |
| September 29, 99 15:43:21 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Antone Matteliano |
| Email: | antone@buffnet.net |
| HomePage: | http://www.homestead.com/rendevous/links.html |
| Where are you from: |
Buffalo NY |
| Comments: | Danita, I looked at all your pertinent pages so far and I want to thank you for sharing this pain with me. Your son seemed like a great kid. It's OK to cry, I shared some tears with you also. You are in my prayers. Antone/Tony |
| September 29, 99 01:32:17 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Anna |
| Email: | minniemouse@telia.com |
| HomePage: | http:// |
| Where are you from: |
Sweden |
| Comments: | This is a lovely site and your son is wonderful. My heart goes out to you. |
| September 28, 99 19:21:25 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | betty watson |
| Email: | mary@lcc.net |
| HomePage: | http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Ridge/7307/GregMem.htm |
| Where are you from: |
texas |
| Comments: | hello, so sorry for your loss, my heart goes out to you. i loss my son in 1994. i know the pain. god bless |
| September 28, 99 13:02:39 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Bryan & Anna-Lisa |
| Email: | cbwhiten@jobe.net |
| HomePage: | http://www.angelfire.com/mo2/savannah |
| Where are you from: |
Mo |
| Comments: | Thank you for sharing with us Geoff life. I love the poems you have selected. You have brought tears to my eyes, Geoff is wonderful. May you help others on their journey as well help heal yourself and family. Hugs |
| September 28, 99 05:30:37 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Nancy |
| Email: | GardenG38@aol.com |
| HomePage: | http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Lane/1289/index.html |
| Where are you from: |
Orlando |
| Comments: | I'm sorry for the loss of your son Geoff. You've done a wonderful job on this website in his memory. Please come visit me and add your link to this site on my free for all link page. I have a section for memorial sites. Take Care. |
| September 28, 99 04:46:34 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Katie |
| Email: | kweb1900@aol.com |
| HomePage: | http:// |
| Where are you from: |
Butte, MT |
| Comments: | I really enjoyed reading about your son. You have a great spirit and I hope your family is a comfort to you. The time and devotion you given to creating this site in his memory is a true test of your love for him. Knowing that a part of him lives on must give you great comfort. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. |
| September 28, 99 02:38:27 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Earl Wenger |
| Email: | earlw@usit.net |
| HomePage: | http:// |
| Where are you from: |
Tennesse(now) Walton, New York (till 1994) |
| Comments: | Just visited your page and have never signed a guestbook before. Because of your unselfish gift of life many more lives than you can ever know have been touched. Our 32y/o daughter went into fuminate liver failure and because of the gift of life from families such as yours' she received a liver transplant 8/18/98. We have not gotten the courage to write a letter to the "donor family" as of this time due to the 'guilt' on our part. How can one thank someone enough when our happiness could not h |
| September 27, 99 18:14:48 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Sue English |
| Email: | cenglish@xtra.co.nz |
| HomePage: | http:// |
| Where are you from: |
New Zealand |
| Comments: | I have just been reading your site and felt very touched by it. I was so sorry to read about your terrible loss. God Bless you and your family and thanks for sharing your thoughts with us. Sue |
| September 27, 99 09:37:24 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Betty |
| Email: | tulden@xs4all.nl |
| HomePage: | http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Shores/3985/ |
| Where are you from: |
Lelystad, the Netherlands |
| Comments: | Hi,thankyou for your kind words in my guestbook. Enjoyed my stay on your pages very much! What a beautiful tribute to your son. You have a wonderful family. |
| September 27, 99 05:10:16 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Penelope a.k.a. Nelly |
| Email: | athina2004@ivillage.com |
| HomePage: | http://www.geocities.com/Paris/Musee/5607 |
| Where are you from: |
Greece |
| Comments: | You touched my soul. What possible words can a mere mortal find to touch yours? Only God can do that. May He give you and your family, confort and love and lead you to the Healing Path. Blessings, Penelope |
| September 27, 99 03:28:09 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Robbie's Mom |
| Email: | warren@netscope.net |
| HomePage: | http://members.tripod.com/~robbies_mom/indexrobbie.html |
| Where are you from: |
VA |
| Comments: | The loss of a child is the most devistating loss any of us can have. I wish that we had been able to donate our son's organs at his death but we were never given the option. You and your beautiful family will be in my thoughts and prayers. |
| September 26, 99 22:52:52 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Minnie |
| Email: | schneide@srv.net |
| HomePage: | http:// |
| Where are you from: |
Idhao Falls |
| Comments: | What a most beautiful site. I had the most warmest feeling and saddness all the same time. Geoff had such a loving beautiful family. He was so blessed and you as a family were as well to have spent time with this remarkable young man. I am so sorry for your loss. I hope my mother and him have met. With All My Love. Minnie |
| September 25, 99 19:35:14 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Brat |
| Email: | |
| HomePage: | http://www.geocities.com/Petsburgh/Zoo/9007 |
| Where are you from: |
California...Living In Colorado....Heart is in Alaska With Sleepy....Long to Be In Texas With Sleepy |
| Comments: | What a Wonderful
Site.. Filled With What A Wonderful Site.. Filled With
Love!! I am ALL FOR ORGAN DONATION.. Geoff DOES LIVE
ON...Take Care.. God Bless.. Here is a 'Lil Brat
Angel'!!......Brat! |
| September 25, 99 05:29:45 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Sherre |
| Email: | sherres_@yahoo.com |
| HomePage: | http://www.angelfire.com/hi/sherre/index.html |
| Where are you from: |
Louisville,Ky |
| Comments: | Hi there
sweetheart..Im so sorry for the loss of your son..I know
how hard it must be for you..But you will see his agin
one day..So rember that he is up there right now looking
down on you with a smile..May the angels look over
you..and your family at all times..Angel Hugs to
you..Sherre ![]() |
| September 23, 99 22:37:10 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Deer With Horns Native American Indian Site |
| Email: | deerwhorns@hotmail.com |
| HomePage: | http://www.angelfire.com/ct/deerwhorns/index.html |
| Where are you from: |
USA; Connecticut;
Wendell is originally from South Dakota, born and raised
on the Cheyenne River Sioux Reservation |
| Comments: | Dear Danita, Thank you for visiting our page and signing the guestbook. Your memorial to your son, Geoff is so beautiful. No words we or anyone can say will ever ease the pain and feelings of loss. This is the most terrible thing any Mother has to go through in life, and your love for Geoff will be an inspirtation to us all. Wendell's brother commited suicide on the reservation, and the pain is something he feels each day. The poems are so beautiful, especially the poem "Two Hearts". |
| September 23, 99 18:02:57 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Claudette Letendre |
| Email: | |
| HomePage: | http://members.tripod.com/~petitchoux/index.html |
| Where are you from: |
Maine USA |
| Comments: | I'm so sorry to
hear of your loss... I would like to give you my Angel of Love Award for your beautiful caring heart! ![]() |
| September 23, 99 10:44:09 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Melanie Ford |
| Email: | melanief@aet.com |
| HomePage: | http:// |
| Where are you from: |
Houston |
| Comments: | Alot of tears went into this site, unspeakable love. It's a beautiful memorial to Geoff. My heart aches for you and your family. My son, Brandon, took his life 17 days after Geoff took his. I hope they met and have become good pals. God Bless you and your family and my prayers go to God & Jesus to take care of Geoff. Happy is the day when we will be with our sons again! Love in Christ, Melanie |
| September 23, 99 02:05:40 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Normie Waltz |
| Email: | normibob@aol.com |
| HomePage: | http:// |
| Where are you from: |
Golden, Colorado |
| Comments: | D.J. What a beautiful way to memorialize your dear son. Your love shows through every picture and every word. I hope to do the same for my son, Aaron, some day. |
| September 22, 99 20:57:40 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Nancy |
| Email: | nancy@1000deaths.com |
| HomePage: | http://virtual-memorials.com/servlet/ViewMemorials?memid=9540&pageno=1 |
| Where are you from: |
So. Jersey |
| Comments: | No one can ever understand the loss of a child, No one ever will....unless they have endured such a tremendous loss.A loss such as this young man's in the very prime of his life....in the blink of an eye he is gone. Now his family bears the horrific pain of this fine young mans loss. Geoff, I never knew you...But you soar with my angel there above....Please look out for your Moms , she needs you more then ever her world crumbled the day you took your life....you took away a huge part of her. |
| September 22, 99 20:11:53 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Lorrie |
| Email: | lorrie@hitter.net |
| HomePage: | http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Fields/2607/index/html |
| Where are you from: |
Inverness,Florida |
| Comments: | Hi D.J..thank you so much for taking the time to sign Megan's guestbook.I didn't realize that you, also have a Megan... :-) I'm so sorry for your loss of your precious son,Geoff.I wish there were something,anything to be able to take away your pain.As you already know,there isn't.This is a beautiful tribute to your son,and one can really tell how much love there is between this family.I'm sure Geoff is greatly missed. Peace to you on this journey D.J. Love, Lorrie (mom2anangel) |
| September 22, 99 16:49:54 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Lesley |
| Email: | EastBeach@webtv.net |
| HomePage: | http://members.tripod.com/~EastBeach |
| Where are you from: |
Rhode Island |
| Comments: | Dear Danita; Thank you for taking the time to visit my site. As a kidney transplant recipient myself, I know the difference you and Geoff have made for so many others. He continues to live thru this precious gift. My thoughts are with you and your family. |
| September 22, 99 14:53:20 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Mina aka QT |
| Email: | mina@pld.com |
| HomePage: | http://www.angelfire.com/ks/minaj/index.html |
| Where are you from: |
SW Kansas |
| Comments: | I don't know the words to write for the loss you are feeling. But I could feel the love as I visited each page have made as a Memorial to your loving Son, Geoff. He would be proud of what you have done. |
| September 22, 99 06:25:57 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Mary Lou Eddings |
| Email: | mleddings@hotmail.com |
| HomePage: | http:// |
| Where are you from: |
florida |
| Comments: | What a moving tribute to your son. I lost my daughter to suicide in May. So much pain and agony for the parents and family left behind. Thank you for sharing your experience. |
| September 22, 99 01:55:42 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Anita Triplett |
| Email: | trip@voicenet.com |
| HomePage: | http://www.voicenet.com/~trip/ |
| Where are you from: |
Media, Pa. |
| Comments: | Danita, thank you for signing my guestbook after seeing my son's memorial site. As a broken-hearted mother, who lost her only child, her son, to suicide, I extend to you my most heartfelt sympathy and compassion for the loss of your son, Geoff. May the heavens comfort you, and may you find some peace on this most hellish journey of grief bereaved parents go through. I am intrigued by your name, Danita, for it merges my son's name (Daniel) with my name (Anita)-----just a thought. |
| September 21, 99 21:28:22 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Karolyn Soice |
| Email: | |
| HomePage: | http:// |
| Where are you from: |
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| Comments: | |
| September 21, 99 16:42:19 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Melanie van Kampen |
| Email: | vankampen@gelrevision.nl |
| HomePage: | http://members.tripod.lycos.nl/melanievk/ |
| Where are you from: |
The Netherlands |
| Comments: | First I want to thank you for signing my guestbook. When I saw Geoff's page, I know we all are"a big family". Living with this loss is impossible, but knowing we're not alone with this pain is keeping our heads above. You made a beautifull memorial of your son Geoff. I'm glad I had a chance to met him. Wishing you a lot of love, Melanie |
| September 19, 99 08:20:48 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Dawn Klein |
| Email: | dmklein@excel.net |
| HomePage: | http://www.geocities.com/dawnk777/ |
| Where are you from: |
Wisconsin |
| Comments: | What a nice tribute to Geoff's life. I'm sorry he decided not to live any longer. That must still be so hard. Thanks for visiting my page and signing my guestbook. |
| September 19, 99 05:53:10 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Becky Kruszynski |
| Email: | kennytruck@aol.com |
| HomePage: | http:// |
| Where are you from: |
Great Valley, NY |
| Comments: | I'm so glad to be able to share a very small portion of your memories. Your son was a special man. I feel fortunate to have known him and to be able to call him a friend! |
| September 18, 99 13:09:14 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Frank |
| Email: | frankcastiglione@aol.com |
| HomePage: | http:// |
| Where are you from: |
WA |
| Comments: | |
| September 18, 99 05:16:30 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Bob Humphrey |
| Email: | boblyn@lineone.net |
| HomePage: | http:// |
| Where are you from: |
Watford, Hertfordshire, England |
| Comments: | My heart goes out to you. This is a lovely site. I got the address of www.1000deaths from The Compassionate Friends Chat room. I visit the TCF chat room because I lost my son by suicide on August 31st, 1998, he was 19 years 8 months old. Take care of yourselves. |
| September 18, 99 02:54:55 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Karen |
| Email: | kam@emeraldis.cim |
| HomePage: | http://www.geocities.com/Wellesley/Garden/4922/ |
| Where are you from: |
SC |
| Comments: | Danita, I am so sorry for your and your family's loss of Geoff. I know how much you hurt. I pray God to bring Comfort and Peace to your hearts. This memorial for Geoff is lovely and the pictures of him are wonderful. If you ever need someone to talk to, just email me. God Bless you. |
| September 18, 99 02:02:11 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | William Austin |
| Email: | austin_william@hotmail.com |
| HomePage: | http:// |
| Where are you from: |
NH |
| Comments: | Im sorry for u. I lost my love to suicide 7/14/98 its tough to get over. I really am impressed with your memorial to your son . Bill |
| September 18, 99 00:30:22 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Patricia |
| Email: | rlf@knology.net |
| HomePage: | http:// |
| Where are you from: |
Georgia |
| Comments: | I lost my 23 year old son to suicide five years ago......I just found this site for Empty Arms Ring.....I have surfed around for hours finding many others in pain like myself....May God be with you and your family |
| September 17, 99 20:11:55 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Dan "Master" Bates |
| Email: | danbates@netsync.net |
| HomePage: | http:// |
| Where are you from: |
Franklinville, NY |
| Comments: | |
| September 17, 99 02:10:54 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Faye-Linda McGovern |
| Email: | chandra@gwi.net |
| HomePage: | http://members.xoom.com/Chandra5/index.html |
| Where are you from: |
Maine-USA |
| Comments: | This is a wonderful web site and it must have been very hard for you to do. My prayers are with you and thanks so much for sharing. Your son was a wonderful person from what I have read about him on this site. God bless always. |
| September 16, 99 12:57:25 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Tracy Dotson |
| Email: | tadot_2000@yahoo.com |
| HomePage: | http://www.angelfire.com/wv/firstnamesinc/index.html |
| Where are you from: |
Edgarton, W. Va. USA |
| Comments: | Very nice looks like you put a lot of work into it hope to see you at my webpage soon have a great day I AM VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS |
| September 16, 99 11:42:14 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Norman & Naeyo Blowers |
| Email: | blowersn001@hawaii.rr.com |
| HomePage: | http://www.hif.net |
| Where are you from: |
Pearl City, HI |
| Comments: | Words alone cannot express the grief that parents losing a child to suicide will endure for the remainder of their lives. As you know all too well, we now share a common bond since our son took his life as well just 3 short months after yours did. We (meaning all of us) will forever ask ourselves "why;" we'll forever know in our hearts there was "just one more thing I might have done that would have made a difference;" we'll forever have a broken heart that time will not heal - merely put the |
| September 16, 99 04:53:39 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Sharon Bach (SaraConr) |
| Email: | pbach@infoave.net |
| HomePage: | http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Creek/7674/index.html |
| Where are you from: |
Brevard, North Carolina |
| Comments: | DJ, I finally made it to your page!!! What a beautiful job you are doing. It is a wonderful tribute to Geoff. Strange how we can chat on irc and share our grief but actually seeing the pictures and reading your words makes me feel so much closer. God bless you. Love, Sharon (SaraConr) |
| September 15, 99 14:38:32 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Kris Bethea |
| Email: | kiersten24@hotmail.com |
| HomePage: | http://www.asam.baynet.de/~betheakr/chris.html |
| Where are you from: |
all over |
| Comments: | You have a beautiful page dedicated to the memory of your Geoff. I am so sorry for your loss. I'm glad you were able to get your guestbook back up and running! God Bless you and yours. |
| September 15, 99 06:31:05 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Debbie |
| Email: | angels@angelsofhope.com |
| HomePage: | http://angelsofhope.com |
| Where are you from: |
Rochester, NY |
| Comments: |
Danita: Thank you for stopping by and signing our
guestbook. I am so sorry for the loss of your Geoff. What
a beautiful site you have for your son. I do know the
pain you feel. Like I have told so many, it matters not
how a mother looses their child, the pain is still the
same. I would like to put a link from our
Inspirational~Encouragement page to your page - Mother
& Son. The poems you have on th |
| September 15, 99 03:30:19 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Tami, Ben's mom |
| Email: | murdock5@greene.xtn.net |
| HomePage: | http://www.angelfire.com/tn/benchristian/ |
| Where are you from: |
Tn. |
| Comments: | Dearest Danita, I went through every bit of your memorial to your beloved Geoff. He reminds me of our Ben. I hope you will come to our message board( http://disc.server.com/Indices/67410.html ), where you will be able to talk about your grief and your hope of seeing Geoff again. We have many friends who are there with their loss of their beloved ones. Your memorial is beautiful and you are so fresh in your pain, the pain that seems unrelenting at times. I send you love, for love never dies. |
| September 15, 99 01:28:05 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Donna |
| Email: | OurDesiree@aol.com |
| HomePage: | http://www.homestead.com/hannah856/ourlostangel.html |
| Where are you from: |
Buna,Texas |
| Comments: | I am sorry for the pain you are having to indure for the loss of your precious son. As a mother who has lost a child, I know your pain. My only child was murdered 8 months ago, and the pain is still so raw. My only prayer now is that God will call me home, to be with Desiree' and that her murderer will receive the justice he desearves. God be with you and your family. Donna (Desiree's Mom) |
| September 13, 99 00:59:20 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Sondra Collard |
| Email: | desacoll@eaznet.com |
| HomePage: | http:// |
| Where are you from: |
Safford, AZ |
| Comments: | My deepest sympathy to you all in the loss of your beloved Geoff. Your poem echoes the feelings of all of us who have lost a loved one to suicide. My prayers are with you. |
| September 12, 99 23:56:46 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Judi |
| Email: | Tweet24798@aol.com |
| HomePage: | http://members.aol.com/Tweet24798/ShanesPage.html |
| Where are you from: |
Louisiana |
| Comments: | I am so sorry for the loss of your son Geoff. As I looked at the pictures of Geoff, I noticed his beautiful smile. I know there is nothing I can say to ease your pain, but I wanted to let you know there are people who care about your pain. |
| September 12, 99 20:09:02 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Jenene' |
| Email: | AG1WIFE@AOL.COM |
| HomePage: | http://hometown.aol.com/ag2wife/dad.htm |
| Where are you from: |
USS ENTERPISE CVN-65/NORFOLK,VA |
| Comments: | I am so very sorry for the loss of ur son... I lost my FATHER almost a YEAR ago.. If there is anything u need or if I can be of any help please let me know... Jenene'(From road2healing) |
| September 11, 99 19:32:45 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Sue Overton |
| Email: | overtoncleve@earthlink.net |
| HomePage: | http://myjesuslives.com/jason/index.html |
| Where are you from: |
Reno,Nevada |
| Comments: | Your tribute to Geoff touched me and as a mom who also lost a child,I share your pain.I hope it is of some comfort to you and your family that through his "Gift of Life"...more than a memory of Geoff lives on.... |
| September 11, 99 15:32:30 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Sharon |
| Email: | sharont@ncweb.com |
| HomePage: | http://www.angelfire.com/oh/wls19/index.html |
| Where are you from: |
Ohio |
| Comments: | Danita....You have created a wonderful memory area for your son Geoff, I commend you!!!! I am so truly sorry for your loss, I see many parallels in our childrens lives..My daughter Wendy was also in cc and track thruout high school and beginning college...Thank you for sharing your son with me and others!!! God Bless Sharon |
| September 11, 99 12:56:02 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | JoAnn |
| Email: | blondie@panacom.com |
| HomePage: | http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Shores/3387/ |
| Where are you from: |
Southport , Florida |
| Comments: | Dear Danita, I am so sorry for your loss , my Heart goes out to you . You have made a Beautiful Memorial page for Geoff, you can feel your Love for him here. I wanted to Welcome you to the Without You Webring, and let you know we are here for you if you need us. You have a Beautiful family , you will be in my thoughts and Prayers . Love , JoAnn |
| September 11, 99 07:14:21 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Cyndi |
| Email: | lamutt22@yahoo.com |
| HomePage: | http:// |
| Where are you from: |
Nebraska |
| Comments: | What a beautiful memorial to your son. I too lost my son to suicide. Eric was with us from 8/22/78 to 7/24/98. It has been a very difficult year, but we're healing. Many blessings to you and your family. Cyndi |
| September 10, 99 19:11:13 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Connie (without you) |
| Email: | hamelinca@netscape.net |
| HomePage: | http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Creek/6408/ |
| Where are you from: |
Canada |
| Comments: | The pain and sorrow of losing someone we love remains and yet we have warm memories we carry in our hearts which makes us smile and brings comfort to us during the worse times. You have created a wonderful site in memory of your son. Cherish his memory always and think of the joy when you will meet in heaven. God Bless and be with you always. |
| September 10, 99 01:47:36 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Renee |
| Email: | rozuna@hotmail.com |
| HomePage: | http://pages.ivillage.com/ps/angeldream/index.html |
| Where are you from: |
Wisconsin |
| Comments: | What a lovely tribute to your son, Geoff. Thank you for sharing your son with the world. His memory lives on. Geoff would surely be proud of your work on this site! |
| September 6, 99 05:28:38 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Carol LaBonte |
| Email: | labonte@ivprog.com |
| HomePage: | http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Pines/4300 |
| Where are you from: |
Kentucky |
| Comments: | To Geoff's Family: I am so sorry for the loss of your son and brother, Geoff. I too lost my son, my only son, Ricky. He committed suicide at the age of 18 years and 2 days. My heart is broken and sometime I really hate it that I have to go on without him. Please visit me and my family at our website. |
| September 2, 99 22:48:17 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Carla Cutting |
| Email: | ccutting@kpbsd.k12.ak.us |
| HomePage: | http:// |
| Where are you from: |
I am from Olean, NY but I live in Soldotna, Alaska |
| Comments: | "Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some stay for a while and leave footprints on our hearts and we are never the same." Geoff will be remembered by everyone whose life he touched. |
| September 2, 99 18:39:59 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | kim |
| Email: | there4u78@aol.com |
| HomePage: | http:// |
| Where are you from: |
TN |
| Comments: | Your web page is a touching one. I am sorry for your lost... |
| September 1, 99 03:45:01 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Phyllis |
| Email: | bkwrmsez@iinc.com |
| HomePage: | http://www.angelfire.com/ny3/phyllis |
| Where are you from: |
Batavia, NY |
| Comments: | (((((((Danita))))))))) hugs for you. I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your beautiful son. The pain must be indescrible. I want to welcome you to the Without You webring. Know that we are here for you whenever you need us. May God Bless. E-mail me anytime you need to talk. |
| August 29, 99 13:03:08 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Kris Bethea |
| Email: | kiersten24@hotmail.com |
| HomePage: | http://www.asam.baynet.de/~betheakr/chris.html |
| Where are you from: |
all over |
| Comments: | You have a beautiful site dedicated to the memory of your son. I am so sorry for your loss. I just wanted to visit and welcome you to the Without You Webring. |
| August 28, 99 22:39:48 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Brian, Nicky, Rena', and Lauren |
| Email: | lolonana@msn.com |
| HomePage: | |
| Where are you from: |
Allegany, NY |
| Comments: | In the blink of an eye, your entire world can change. We'll never know what you are going through, but our prayers are with you. May the Lord continue to make you strong. |
| August 26, 99 01:05:41 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Carole Ann Schreiber |
| Email: | yodey@webtv.net |
| HomePage: | http://members.tripod.com/~yodey/index.html |
| Where are you from: |
Brooklyn, New York |
| Comments: | I cannot tell you " I know what you are going through" I can't imagine the pain. I myself have a 20 yr old daughter and I know she has it harder than I did growing up, it was either a kinder world then or I was just to young to know any better (I am 42). My heart and prayers are with you and your family and I know that your son is watching over you all now. hugs |
| August 25, 99 04:57:11 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Luke Zwieg |
| Email: | lucius@execpc.com |
| HomePage: | http://www.execpc.com/~lucius |
| Where are you from: |
Wisconsin, USA |
| Comments: | I'm so sorry to hear about your son. I don't understand what you're going through. My brother died 7/22/99. I know of several suicides. A friend at work just found out her 12 year old niece committed suicide. She was afraid to go to middle school in fall. I'm so sorry, and will pray for your family and your son. God Bless You! |
| August 24, 99 03:54:15 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Mandy Tanses |
| Email: | MTanses@aol.com |
| HomePage: | http://none/ |
| Where are you from: |
Highland, Indiana (25 miles southeast of Chicago) |
| Comments: | Danita, Your web site for your son Geoff is beautiful. You should be so proud of yourself. I am sure Geoff is watching over you and very proud to see what his mom has done in his memory. My daughter and I are getting together some pictures of the family and our Geoff. I just hope that when I do my Geoff's web page it is just as beautiful. I hope our Geoffs have met. God Bless to your family. Mandy, mother to Geoffrey Patrick Tanses 9/16/78 - 6/6/99 |
| August 23, 99 22:22:12 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Josh |
| Email: | jaa_84@yahoo.com |
| HomePage: | http://http://www.expage.com/page/dnahsoj |
| Where are you from: |
Franklinville |
| Comments: | Hey this is a pretty groovy page mom. You need more pictures of us and Geoff. |
| August 18, 99 21:56:00 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Kathy (Jason's Mom) |
| Email: | |
| HomePage: | http://www.angelfire.com/ok/JasonLenhart/ |
| Where are you from: |
Delevan, NY |
| Comments: | Dear DJ, What a beautiful memorial to Geoff. I am sure he is looking down from Heaven, smiling and gleaming at the lovely site you and Joe have created for him. My heart and my prayers are with you and your family during this most difficult time. Yours in grief and fiendship...Kathy (Jason's Mom) |
| August 15, 99 05:48:36 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Holly Lenhart Rock (sady) |
| Email: | sadyjade@yahoo.com |
| HomePage: | http://www.angelfire.com/ok/JasonLenhart |
| Where are you from: |
PA |
| Comments: | Oh DJ .... what a man he was becoming :( I am so sorry ... mere words are idle in a moment such as this *sigh* What can I say .... I wish I could have known him when ... but now I will know you and hold hands with those who are on this road we have been pushed onto...together we will find our way hon !!! We will keep moving and loving till we see our family's again !!! Loving you...Loving me... |
| August 14, 99 22:06:41 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Judy Boc |
| Email: | judyb@iaw.on.ca |
| HomePage: | http://www.meetingofhearts.com/ |
| Where are you from: |
Ontario, Canada |
| Comments: | I am so sorry for your loss...I also lost a 20 year old son. I know your pain. I came here via my website your post on our memorial board too your son. Please come into our chat room where you will find love and support through your journey of grief. My heart reaches out too you and my arms hold you in a warm embrace. |
| August 11, 99 10:18:16 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Nancy |
| Email: | nancy@1000deaths.com |
| HomePage: | http://virtual-memorials.com/servlet/ViewMemorials?memid=9540&pageno=1 |
| Where are you from: |
Cherry Hill, New Jersey |
| Comments: | Danita & Family ; This is such a tribute to your precious son,"Geoff". Gone but never forgotten, touching the lives of many, may Geoff's shinning star look over you all, through this devastating journey.As Geoff is now at peace, may all that know and love Geoff, find thiers. Anytime, anywhere, ya need a friend....I am here for you. May God Bless...Us All, With Love, Nancy Mom to Jennifer |
| August 8, 99 11:46:06 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Andrea J. Butts |
| Email: | andie_79@hotmail.com |
| HomePage: | http:// |
| Where are you from: |
Olean, NY (currently in New Mexico) |
| Comments: | Twenty years we had with you, We'll see you again, but until we do, May the angels see you through, And remember, we still think of you. |
| August 8, 99 05:27:24 (GMT Time) |
| Name: | Danita Colley {DJ} Geoff's Mom |
| Email: | webmaster@inmemoryofgeoff.com |
| HomePage: | http://inmemoryofgeoff.8m.com/ |
| Where are you from: |
Franklinville, New York |
| Comments: | Testing: Hope you've enjoyed your visit! I'll be adding more soon. Please, take a minute to sign my guestbook to tell me what you think, or suggest anything; or if you knew Geoff and have any special remembrances, please feel free to write about it. It will mean so much to me and my family. Thanks again for visiting! Take care. Peace........ |
| August 8, 99 01:19:25 (GMT Time) |

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